Bond Vs Bondage

I knew someone Who I will call Donna, who Began to understand her intuition and the bond between family friends so well; she cared about others with Love, courtesy, understanding and loving respect for others and herself.  She had a healthy Self confidence and an amazing high level of Empathy for others, including herSelf.

She was honest, caring, open, never argues about anything with anyone.  Wants peace at all costs.  She thinks so much of others yet still she’s found a way to balance her life.  I remember meeting her the very first time in Vancouver’s Spanish Banks; a very beautiful beach; while my clients sailed the seas of Vancouver, my parents and I went to the Beach and that  is the day when meeting a woman of integrity, who cared about her family more than anyone could ever believe happened so subtly yet so suddenly.  Now that is a person who has a BOND with her friends and family:

A highly effective woman, with an amazing Love and Maturity that I will always admire, respect about her and cherish forever.

Now on the other hand, we have others we might know who have been in our lives who:

1. Are mean, controlling, pushy, demanding, insecure, and manipulative.

Have you ever met someone who talks about having a connection with you and when you really look at it you will see that it is only one of hells traps, that they call it a BOND, YET it is nothing more than BONDAGE.

We have heard these words, quotes, sentences or even experienced such people in our lives:

“Trying to put one on a leash.”

“Having to be at their every call.”

“He/she is wanting me to trust them when they have not even earn it.”

Or they make you wait for them, wasting valuable hours of your time and want you to chase them; again trying to put one on a leash….

Manipulating and  Controlling through guilt and fearful communication, Vs Love, compassion and understanding.

But remember we are only able to appreciate what we want in our lives once we have experienced things or people we do not want.

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2 Responses to “Bond Vs Bondage”

  1. Janice Says:

    You generally are a very open and Caring man to everyone PETER! Thank-you for being an “Earth Angel” who wants to see everyone get closer to themselves. Your private sessions and meditation classes have really helped us, me and my boyfriend to communicate more effectively.

  2. sheila Says:

    thank you for sharing. much love Sheila xoxo

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